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The holidays can magnify an old ache: being the “difficult” one in a family that doesn’t see your neurodivergence. We unpack the invisible wound of feeling mislabeled and misunderstood, then go deep into the family dynamics that keep you stuck like scapegoating, triangulation, and the subtle gaslighting of “It’s just one day.” You’ll learn why your needs are not too much, why your brain is not a problem to fix, and how to replace survival patterns with boundaries that actually protect your health.

I share a clear framework for boundaries as care instructions for your nervous system, not punishments. We get practical with journal prompts to clarify your limits, short scripts you can use word-for-word, and realistic consequences when pressure doesn’t stop. We walk through holiday scenarios, the “do it for mom” guilt loop, and how to hold steady using the broken record technique without overexplaining. Along the way, we name the grief of letting go of the family you wish you had and the relief of no longer performing for acceptance.

If your body spikes at phrases like “try harder” and “you’re too sensitive,” this conversation offers validation, tools, and a path forward. We talk regulation first, plus documentation when stories get rewritten, and building chosen family who respect your limits without negotiation. You deserve freedom from constant masking and relationships built on respect, not performance. 


About Me:


I’m Autumn Moran, a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas specializing in trauma-informed care for neurodivergent women and trauma survivors.






Therapy (Texas residents only):


I provide individual therapy in my private practice for women working through trauma, late diagnosis processing, relationship challenges, and healing from narcissistic abuse or toxic family systems. My approach is neurodivergent-affirming and focuses on helping you understand your patterns while building practical tools for nervous system regulation and authentic living.






Life Coaching (available anywhere):


For women outside Texas or those wanting support alongside therapy, I offer:


•Somatic Healing Coaching: Bridges the gap between cognitive understanding and embodied healing through nervous system work, movement practices, and practical integration tools. Perfect as a complement to talk therapy or for those ready to work directly with their body’s wisdom.


•Unmasking Journey Coaching: Specialized support for late-diagnosed neurodivergent women learning to reconnect with their authentic selves after decades of masking. We work on identifying your real needs, rebuilding your sense of self, and creating a life that fits who you actually are.






Whether you’re healing trauma, discovering yourself after late diagnosis, or both, my goal is to help you not just understand your story, but feel genuinely safe and at home in your own body.






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