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To my trans & gender non-conforming family & allies.

Sometimes struggle feels like destiny but it's the brain treating a prolonged period of uncertainty as a permanent state.

It’s how human prediction systems work without evidence of safety or payoff.

The brain converts “this has been true for a while” into “this is forever.” it's not insight, it’s malfunction in forecasting under stress.

There's nothing mystical or fated about your struggles or setbacks. These aren't signs you missed your path or being punished.

That ‘fate’ feeling happens when a nervous system carries too much load without a stabilizing element for a long stretch.

The brain loses ability to imagine alternatives & that inability gets misinterpreted as destiny.

Your brain also doesn’t attach the same weight to the things that contradict the doom. It downgrades small wins & positive events because under threat, the brain filters for survival variables only: money, shelter, future, safety.

Everything else gets treated as cosmetic or temporary & that filtering creates a feeling that nothing counts unless it solves everything at once.

Destiny is a story your mind is using to make sense of the discomfort.

The reality is more boring and fixable: brains under long-term uncertainty predict negative permanence. When someone gets a stabilizer, it recalibrates fast.

People often think new stability created the optimism, but the truth is the optimism was there all along just inaccessible until the system stops scanning for danger.

Optimism is a default trait of an inclusive mind bc the perspective to accept what's other than you is a form of optimism.

You aren’t cursed, past your window or being shown a “forecast from the universe.” You're inside a standard human response to prolonged uncertainty. It feels fated because the brain doesn’t show alt futures when it doesn’t trust the present.

The moment your mind spends even 5 minutes not forecasting — hope flickers back in. It could be in:
• A good conversation
• A kind stranger
• A moment of music
• A task that pulls you into flow
• A human smile that lands
• A gig that feels aligned
• A creative spark
• A walk where your senses settle

Your life isn't defined by scarcity but is still unfolding, building, becoming.

Nothing about your current state is final.

You're allowed to trust this chapter is a bridge, not a destiny & to believe opportunities can appear suddenly, without warning.

You're allowed to let hope exist even if your mind tries to shut the door.

You're not done or falling.
You're moving, slowly & steadily toward a life that fits you in ways you cannot yet imagine.

There's people who will see the brilliance you have trouble seeing in yourself, doors that will open because of the smallest choices you make now.

Through all of this, you're held by something larger than the noise in your mind.

You can breathe into this truth until it becomes familiar.

You're authentic & beautifully made & allowed to want more, to crave touch & safety.

Your rights aren't defined by others, but by your presence & the forces of the universe inside your mind & heart.

No one gets to take away your right to joy & peace.
I love you & I choose you. I love me & I choose me. Stay in the boat.