If you've ever felt like your husband hates you, then this is for you. I am no stranger to this feeling. Just talking girl to girl, there's definitely been times in my marriage, in one particular time in my marriage, where every interaction I had with my husband made me feel like I was doing something wrong. He was angry, he was cold, he was distant, and I kept wondering, "What is it that I've done? Why is he acting like this? Is this going to last forever? Because I don't know that I can continue the rest of my life in a marriage where one person is acting like this." I totally get how you feel.
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I want to ask you some questions to help guide you through possibly figuring out why your husband is acting this way and why it may seem like he hates you. The first question I want to ask you is this: Is there anything else going on in your husband's life that could be leading him to be angry, resentful, cold, or distant from you? If there are things going on at work, with his parents, with his friends, or anything making him stressed out, feeling less like a man, etc., then the way he treats you may be affected. Maybe he's feeling insecure about another area of his life. Because of that insecurity, he interacts with you differently than he did before.
But maybe there's not something going on outside of your marriage. Ask yourself this: Has there been anything about our interactions in the past that might be leading my husband to be cold, distant, or angry toward me? Maybe, consider if, in the past, you have treated your husband more like a child. That is, telling him what to do and when to do it. Or even, to pick up his clothes, to do this, that, or the other. Yes, I get it. As a wife, there are things we want done. A lot of the time, we feel like we need to take the reins and tell our husbands what to do; otherwise it would never get done. I've said that way too many times, and what ended up happening was my husband began to feel completely disrespected by me. He felt like I didn't care about what he wanted to do, what his thoughts were, or anything like that. Eventually, he did not want to interact with me as much, because every time we would interact, I told him something I thought he should do. Or, I would tell him something to do differently. Sometimes, I would even tell him when he didn't do something right the first time. Overall, you can see how my critiques caused him to not want to have any conversations with me.
Here's another thing to consider. Have you told your friends, your family, or your husband's friends or family, or (heaven forbid) everyone on social media, things in your husband's life that he wanted private between the two of you? If so, that could also keep him from opening up to you. You see, our husbands need a safe place. They want to know that we can be their confidantes; they can tell us things they wouldn't tell anyone else because that's what we are there for- for them. So, when we take their private information, and start telling other people about it-maybe that's not what our husbands wanted. Therefore, our husbands don't trust us as much and don't want to open up to us; which, can lead them to becoming cold and distant. For the remainder of this transcript, visit http://www.marriagehelper.com/my-husb...
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