Why Do Empaths STRUGGLE To Attract Love?

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In this video, I'm gonna show you why Empaths struggle to attract love and I'm gonna show you how Empaths can completely transform that energy to have that attractive energy, magnetic energy from the inside out, so they stop sabotaging it for themselves.

Now, first off, let me say that I have been through a total transformation over the last year, year and a half, when it comes to being somebody considered an Empath.

Meaning, I could feel other people's emotions, what people are thinking many times, and I would tune myself to others a lot, in order to really even just get by in life, and that was something that many Empaths do.

Empaths are very sensitive. They can feel other people's emotions and other people's energies. And in this video, I'm gonna show you the thing that transformed everything, allowed it to be so much easier for me to be in that attractive magnetic energy and exactly how you can do it too.

Now, first off, let's realize why are, is somebody an Empath? And what is it about being an Empath that actually repels love, that repels that attractive energy?

Now, an Empath is somebody that is sensitive, that can feel other people's emotions or energies, and they're normally very much in tune with the external, with what their environment, where they could feel what's going on.

Now, the thing with this is understanding that one of the things that happens as an Empath is if you tune yourself to other people too often, you then lose your own center of gravity, and you're tuning to everybody else, which means that a certain level you are abandoning yourself to get your own needs met.

Abandoning yourself to get other people's validation, abandoning yourself to get other people's approval, abandoning yourself to get other people not to feel tension.

And the challenge with this is that you're abandoning yourself in order, it's all this energy that goes towards fixing the environment and getting everyone to feel safe, and it's a really, it's a form of manipulation.

That's what I had to realize. I'm like, wow. So many times I'm trying to manipulate my life in different ways, in order to get my needs met. But what that's resulting in is me, tuning and losing my own center of gravity and feeling kind of like a leaf in the wind, like I'm getting pulled in all these different directions.

So one of the things that really blocks Empaths from being attractive and having magnetic energy is a certain level of neediness, in order to manipulate the outer environment. Now, neediness is anytime we need something from somebody else, they can feel that.

Neediness says, I'm not whole and complete already. I need you to meet my own needs, and what ends up happening with this many times is because we need someone else to meet our own needs, we end up repelling the very thing that we want.

Whatever we crave, we must learn to give to ourself. If we crave validation or approval, we must learn that validation approval is not outside of us.

It's within us. And that's something that I had to learn to do. I had to, first, I had to stop abandoning myself. I had to start becoming aware that the Empath, like the Empath, what do we call it?

It's like a super power in a way for some people, because they can tune to other people and they can do these things. People are like, "How do you know this?" I'm very in tune. Anytime I meet somebody that has any type of similar energy to my ex stepmom, I can feel it like that, because it's like a red flag.

I know how to spot it. By my ex stepmom, someone that's like a narcissist. The funny thing too, is that Empaths tend to attract narcissists.

One of the reasons Empath attract narcissists is because narcissists have a very strong frame, even though that frame is built upon insecurity, they still feel that.

And there's something about that that attracts them to it, and I think a lot of times as well, Empaths tend to have very strong figures growing up that maybe they felt like they had to please, which could many times be the type of narcissistic personality pattern.

But in general, the reason Empaths attract narcissists is because in a way they put up with it, and they're trying to get the validation, the approval, and they're willing to completely abandon themselves in order to make the narcissists happy.

So one of the things that changes this whole entire energy dynamic around, is when you realize that this whole Empath thing was a survival mechanism as a kid, in order to get your needs met.

But at the same time, it's a form of manipulative energy, where you're trying to manipulate everyone else and the feeling a certain way about you, trying to manipulate other people into, manipulate yourself.