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Does your child constantly demand you bring them things — even when they could do it themselves?
Shouting for food, the TV remote, drinks, or help with simple tasks can feel exhausting, frustrating, and even upsetting for parents.

But for many children — especially those with PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), autism or anxiety — this behaviour isn’t laziness, entitlement, or defiance.

In this video, I explain what’s really going on in your child’s nervous system, why these demands are often a sign of distress and threat response, and how small accommodations can actually reduce meltdowns rather than reinforce behaviour.

If this resonates with your family, you are not alone — and it is not your fault.

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