Скачать или смотреть The Truth About Dating Apps for Black Women: My Story vs. the Data

Online dating fatigue is real; especially for Black women. We hear the statistics. We hear the stories. We hear the discouragement.

But what we don’t hear enough is the nuance. Because your outcome isn’t determined by the averages…
It’s shaped by your presentation, energy, openness, and positioning.

I met my fiancé on a dating app, and I was receiving so much attention from non-Black men that I could hardly manage the volume. Not chaos. Not games. Genuine, intentional interest.

This isn’t about being “lucky.”
It’s about understanding how online signals: warmth, femininity, emotional ease, lifestyle cues, and racial openness and shape the type of men who pursue you.

Black women do not have to accept the narrative that “apps don’t work for us.”
The truth is far more empowering and strategic.

And in my upcoming Interracial Dating Course, I teach exactly how to shift your profile and your energy to change your outcomes in a meaningful way.

You’re not invisible. You just haven’t been positioned for the men who can actually see you.