10 Dysfunctional Family 'Rules' Supporting Family Scapegoat Abuse (FSA)

In this video, I review TEN unspoken and hidden 'RULES' that are evident in dysfunctional or narcissistic family systems that fuel and drive Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA). See trigger warning and access video chapters and a list of resources, below (including my FSA Recovery Affirmations on video).

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00:00 - Intro
01:02 - Three concepts dysfunctional families are governed by
02:30 - Power, false narratives, reality distortion
03:19 - Love for sale
04:20 - Fawn/submit/defer
05:24 - Injustice and righteous rage
06:06 - Empaths and intergenerational trauma
07:47 - 'Scapegoat' / 'Golden Child' split
08:53 - DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender
10:30 - Feelings must be stuffed
11:44 - Deny painful realities
12:35 - The price the scapegoat must pay to 'belong'

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