FAMILY SCAPEGOATS Experience THESE Bizarre Realities

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Ep. 1 - Bizarre Realities Family Scapegoats live with due to reality distortion and false narratives: Have any of these mind-bending (and very painful) things happened to you? Is your truth and reality repeatedly dismissed or denied within your family-of-origin? Did your family align with your ex in a divorce? Are you never "good enough"? I spent years researching what I eventually named 'family scapegoating abuse' (FSA) and I've also spent countless hours counseling FSA adult survivors: These are three of the bizarre realities that scapegoated adults experience in their DYSFUNCTIONAL or NARCISSISTIC family system, but sadly, for the FSA adult survivor, these realities are typical. [Scroll down to view chapters]

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0:00 - Intro
0:13 - Bizarre Reality Number One - The scapegoat child / adult child's successes are ignored.
2:43 - Client Example: The oncologist whose family refuses to acknowledge his cancer expertise.
3:50 - Having your successes ignored is common in families that scapegoat - You're not alone!
4:35 - Confusion and shame from scapegoating can result in Impostor Syndrome
5:17 - Bizarre Reality Number Two - Family sides with your ex (including narcissistic ex)
8:07 - Bizarre Reality Number Three - No matter what you do, it's not good enough.
8:40 - Client example: "I could hear you breathing!"
9:55 - "Maybe this time it will be different" (Irrational hopes based on unmet childhood needs)

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