Why Are Empaths MAGNETS To Narcissists? (NOT What you think!)

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Why is it that empaths seem to be magnets for narcissists? It's almost like there's also a certain level of attraction that empaths have for narcissists, at least in the beginning. And that's what then causes this kind of trap where narcissist and empaths seem to attract each other.

In this video, I'm gonna show you how to finally break the spell so that you stop attracting
people into your life that may be narcissists, that may be manipulating your energy, gaslighting you, keeping you within this realm of emotional-like manipulation. And I'm gonna show you how to break that once and for all.

Now, first off, with this process, understand that our energy and who we are, we always attract an equal reflection of where we are at the time. So you might hear that and go, "Well, Aaron, are you telling me that I'm a narcissist? I'm not a narcissist bro." And I'm like, "I know I get it."

But here is the interesting thing about empaths and narcissists that actually may be kinda hard to hear. Now, let's look at the unmet needs of empaths versus narcissists. So, let's also, first off, define what an empath and a narcissist is so that we can understand this dynamic, 'cause this dynamic will change the way you look at this forever. So, first off, narcissists are people that are very preoccupied with themselves.

They will do anything they can do in order to get other people to adhere to their frame. Now in general, narcissists also normally have a strong sense of frame, a strong sense of self. And even though maybe that sense of self is built on a faulty foundation, where it's like they feel like they need to suck energy outta the environment in order to upheld their sense of self, they still do have a perceived sense of self at least, where they have a frame and they are in that energy to where they may emotionally manipulate their environment.

They may have high demands upon the people in their life. And that is a side effect of the narcissism mentality and personality. Now, on the other side of that, you have that of an empath. Now an empath in a way, is an opposite, but also, an empath is somebody that can feel other people's energy.

Empaths also tend to be very sensitive. They tend to understand and to know what other people may be feeling or thinking. Now there is a tendency in empaths to tune their energy
to their surroundings. Now, the reason being, is because in childhood normally, and both of these have a childhood wound that is very similar, but just used in a different way.

Empaths feel, in childhood, that something happened, something went wrong. And apparently have emotionally checked out or physically left. And there was a meaning that was made, there was a decision that was made that said, "Who I am is not good enough, or "I need to change myself and surrender my own frame in order to make people happy." Now this is also why a lot of times empaths can also be people-pleasers, or nice guys, or nice girls or whatever you wanna call that.

But people pleasers are people that have to please other people, even though a lot of
times it's not authentic. In order to get their environment to feel safe. So the way that people with their empathic create safety, is by tuning to their environment, and tuning to other people to try to then maybe even change it, to maybe please other people.

Have you ever felt like you were maybe having to be the glue in your friendships, or the glue in your family to get everyone to get along? And then by tuning to others like, that's how you create your sense of safety? Well, that's what empaths do. That's what empaths do to create safety. So they tune to other.

So in a way, you could think of it like their energy field is not really as much in their body, but it's tuning to their environment. And that's why a lot of empaths may have very intuitive gifts. They're tuning more to their energy field than everything else around them. And then they become kind of a chameleon.

They're able to adapt to any situation, to please anybody that that may come in. And what ends up happening though, is there's a frustration that happens. Because eventually people wake up from being the empath, Being an empath isn't a bad thing, but when you're always tuning to other people, you eventually might start to resent yourself. That's what happened to me. I was empathic, I kept attracting narcissist into my life.

It was like, I attracted my ex-stepmom from 7 to 15. And then after she left, I kept attracting more and more people that reflected that energy, because there was a belief there. And there was, in a way, as hard as this is to admit, there was a certain level of safety I felt by having a narcissist in my life. The safety was that I felt like I could relax in someone else's frame.