I’m 35. If You’re in Your 20s, Watch This

Turning 35 feels like a milestone, but looking back at my 20s, I remember how lost, shy, and unsure I often felt.
If you're in your 20s and feeling overwhelmed by life, like you're not good enough or too quiet to be heard, this video is for you. Here are 35 lessons I’ve learned through rejection, failure, and growth.
I wish I could go back and tell my younger self all of this—so let me share it with you. Whether you’re figuring out your career, relationships, or just life in general, I hope these lessons help guide you through your journey.
Life doesn’t get easier, but it does get clearer. And the good news? You’ll be okay.

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Chapters:
0:00 - Turned 35!
01:20 - Everything can go wrong, but it’ll be fine
02:18 - Everyone is winging it
02:33 - Take care of your health
03:36 - Read more books
03:49 - Transformation doesn’t happen overnight
04:42 - Financial health is self-care
05:23 - Smile more—it's anti-aging
05:54 - Posture matters—stand tall
06:20 - It’s okay to miss out
06:26 - It’s either a good time or a good story
06:47 - Be grateful, even on tough days
07:00 - Learn to say "no"—it’s a superpower
07:25 - Ask "why," and then ask "why not?"
07:45 - Start a failure journal
07:54 - Stay curious, keep the inner child alive
08:30 - No one is thinking about you as much as you think
08:53 - Be the CEO of your own life
09:28 - Your environment matters—choose wisely
09:53 - Travel often, be a traveler, not a tourist
10:26 - God (or luck) helps those who help themselves
10:37 - Make time for loved ones—plan with them
10:48 - Hold onto those who support you
11:00 - There’s never a perfect time to start
11:18 - Invest in yourself—it’s the best ROI
11:33 - The only certainty in life is uncertainty
12:17 - It’s never too late to start something new
12:50 - Don’t compare your inside with others' outside
13:33 - Pause when needed
13:50 - Life is supposed to be full of problems
14:13 - Live without regrets—try rather than wonder
14:49 - Be Kind
15:13 - You are beautiful—be kind to yourself
15:43 - Love wholeheartedly, embrace heartbreaks too
16:51 - When you lose hope, look back at how far you’ve come
17:30 - Outro

WHO AM I?
Hey there! 👋 I'm Lydia, a former investment banker with a heart for climate tech and a passion for personal growth and healthy living. My channel is all about discovering the best versions of ourselves, whether that's through exploring new cuisines, diving into personal development, or sharing insights from my world in climate tech and finance. Join me for a blend of wellness, wisdom, and a dash of adventure, all wrapped up in all the memory plus from London, HK and beyond 🌟🍴🌱
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