Do We CHANGE Ourselves To Be Liked? (ft. Saffron Sharpe, Q, Joie, Nic) | The Hop Pod Ep.2

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[CW: This video contains discussion with sensitive content on cyberbullying. Viewer discretion is advised.]

Are you tired of constantly worrying about what others think of you? In this episode of The Hop Pod, ‪@SaffronSharpe‬ joins our hosts to chat about the fear of being disliked. What are the underlying factors that contribute to this fear and how can we be freed from these suffocating thoughts? Listen in as they share practical tips on embracing this journey.

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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Teaser
00:18 Welcome to The Hop Pod
00:46 Topic of the day
01:04 What does being disliked mean?
01:27 Culture of hate comments on TikTok
03:00 How Saffron’s first cancellation affected her
03:48 Joie getting hate from Singapore Swifties
05:02 Being disliked by someone you know
06:44 Adapting to people’s behaviour
07:03 What people don’t like about Q and Nic
08:35 What contributes to this fear of what other people think of you?
09:25 How getting bullied in school affected Joie
10:59 If everyone dislikes you, are YOU the problem?
13:22 Is it REALLY a good thing if someone likes you?
13:48 The Question Pod
15:33 On social code-switching
16:27 Saffron’s social anxiety in relationships
17:23 Paying someone to be your friend?!
18:39 When is it unhealthy to care about what others think of you?
20:40 How therapy helped Saffron
23:19 How can we live without being controlled by the fear of people’s opinions about you?
25:04 Q didn’t want to be on the podcast?!
27:03 On acceptance and the fear of rejection
28:21 Outro
28:52 Bloopers

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