LIARS: THE HORRIFYING IMPACT OF PATHOLOGICAL & TOXIC FAMILY LIES

Toxic family dynamics can lead to years of lies.
Years of lies can turn into pathological lies that a family keeps to protect each other from the truth.

In other families, family lies can become an automatic process by which the family member speaks before they think (i.e., impulsively) and a lie comes out.

Very dysfunctional families sometimes live their lives based lies that just keeps recycling in a pattern until another family member identifies it and stops it.

Family lies within a toxic family dynamic can happen for many reasons -- so many reasons that one conversation isn't enough.

In this live chat, I discuss the psychology of a family of lies.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #toxicfamily
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
2:00 lying behaviors are pervasive, chronic
2:38 COMPULSIVE vs PATHOLOGICAL LYING
6:00 pathological lying is not a diagnostic entity/categorization
24:23 WHY LIARS LIE
32:11 WHAT RESEARCH/PSYCHOLOGY SAYS ABOUT LIARS
50:21 BEHAVIORS YOU ARE LIKELY TO SEE

*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Jackson JC, Choi VK, Gelfand MJ. Revenge: A Multilevel Review and Synthesis. Annu Rev Psychol. 2019 Jan 4;70:319-345. doi: 10.1146/annurev-psych-010418-103305. PMID: 30609911.

2. McCullough ME, Kurzban R, Tabak BA. Cognitive systems for revenge and forgiveness. Behav Brain Sci. 2013 Feb;36(1):1-15. doi: 10.1017/S0140525X11002160. Epub 2013 Feb 1. PMID: 23211191.

3. Pathological Lying: Theoretical and Empirical Support
for a Diagnostic Entity by Drew A. Curtis, Ph.D., and Christian L. Hart, Ph.D.
https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/...

4. Barnes, C. D., Brown, R. P. & Osterman, L. L. (2009) Protection, payback, or both? Emotional and motivational mechanisms underlying avoidance by victims of transgressions. Motivation and Emotion 33:400–11.Google Scholar

5. Grant JE, Paglia HA, Chamberlain SR. The Phenomenology of Lying in Young Adults and Relationships with Personality and Cognition. Psychiatr Q. 2019 Jun;90(2):361-369. doi: 10.1007/s11126-018-9623-2. PMID: 30694440; PMCID: PMC6542652.

6. PROLIFIC LIARS: https://www.scienceofpeople.com/9-thi....

7. Grant JE, Paglia HA, Chamberlain SR. The Phenomenology of Lying in Young Adults and Relationships with Personality and Cognition. Psychiatr Q. 2019 Jun;90(2):361-369. doi: 10.1007/s11126-018-9623-2. PMID: 30694440; PMCID: PMC6542652.

8. Gottman, J. M. (1993). The roles of conflict engagement, escalation, and avoidance in marital interaction: A longitudinal view of five types of couples. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 61(1), 6–15. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-006X.61.1.6

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