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When something inside you spirals - sabotage, shame, withdrawal, defensiveness - your nervous system is running a procedural memory.

It stored past experiences as survival data.

When something today feels similar, it reacts as if you’re back there.

It can feel immediate 🚨

Convincing.
Urgent.

This doesn’t only happen with panic or obvious distress.

Feeling safe.
Feeling excited.
Feeling loved.
Receiving more.

Expansion can activate your system too.

If your body isn’t used to holding that level of safety or success, it may pull back not because it’s wrong, but because it’s unfamiliar or once felt unsafe.


That doesn’t make it truth.

It makes it familiar.


🗝️ Discernment is learning the difference between:

• What feels real
• And what is actually happening now

Recognition alone doesn’t change it.

Your system updates when you remain present in your body while the feeling moves and you choose a different behavior anyway.


👉🏼 How does this show up in life?

• Business: You get close to expansion visibility, launching, scaling, and suddenly want to pull back or “refine” one more thing.

• Money: You receive more - a raise, a client, an opportunity and feel exposed, tense, or like it could disappear.

• Leadership: Someone disagrees and your system interprets it as danger instead of difference.

• Relationships: Things get real and you detach, overcorrect, fix, or prepare to leave.

• Self / Identity: You question yourself the moment you start becoming someone new.


It feels personal.

It’s patterned.


You can understand nervous system work and still loop.

Because patterns weren’t built through insight.


They were built through repetition.

They shift the same way.


By:

• Feeling shame without shrinking

• Feeling fear or excitement without stopping

• Feeling uncertainty without catastrophizing

• Feeling anger without detonating your life


Capacity grows when you stay present while discomfort exists.


👉🏼 Next time you feel the shift:

1. Say internally: “My system is reacting.”

2. Anchor into one physical sensation.

3. Make one decision aligned with where you’re going even if it’s small.


You are the adult now.

You don’t fight the reaction.
You don’t become the reaction.

You stay.
You feel.
You choose forward.

Repeat.

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