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Toxic family dynamics can often result in a mother becoming jealous of their child.

You don't have to be the girl or female child for the mother to be jealous of you.

There is a certain degree of anger, internalized low self-esteem, and rivalry that sits at the core of this toxic family trap.

No adult child wants to think or believe they had a jealous mother. But how else are you to see the mother's behavior when she seems:
-angry when you suceed
-problematic when you strive for bigger and better
-get into a relationship they never had
-graduate from the university they wanted to attend
-have the love a father and grandparents that she never had
-lead a different lifestyle that is healthy and complete

It's hard to conceptualize but is way more common than you may think.

In this live chat, I discuss the toxic family dynamic of jealousy and the psychology of these mothers.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #toxicfamily
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 Intro
2:10 jealous mothers may not look jealous
4:07 there is a "rivalry" built into the experience
6:06 there is a deep desire involved (unfairly personal)
7:00 "code of silence"
8:29 "jealous and envious person is jealous because.." (Salovey, P., & Rothman, A. J., 1991).
11:55 schadenfreude (deriving pleasure)
16:44 dynamic of jealous mother and her personal identity
27:10 WHAT IS HAPPENING
36:57 jealousy vs. envy
43:30 "can the parent see their own envy?"
WHAT RESEARCH SAYS
1:03:17 HOW YOU SHOULD SEE THIS DYNAMIC

*discussion in-between content
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Mentioned In The Live Chat (research & further information):
1. Salovey, P., & Rothman, A. J. (1991). Envy and jealousy: Self and society. In P. Salovey (Ed.), The psychology of jealousy and envy (pp. 271–286). Guilford Press.
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1991-9...

2. Ramachandran VS, Jalal B. The Evolutionary Psychology of Envy and Jealousy. Front Psychol. 2017 Sep 19;8:1619. doi: 10.3389/fpsyg.2017.01619. PMID: 28970815; PMCID: PMC5609545.

3. Bringle, R. G., Renner, P., Terry, R., & Davis, S. (1983). An analysis of situation and person components of jealousy. Journal of Research in Personality, 17, 354-368.

4. Parrott, W. G., and Smith, R. H. (1993). Distinguishing the experiences of envy and envy. J. Pers. Soc. Psychol. 64, 906–920. doi: 10.1037/0022-3514.64.6.906

5. Briki (2019). Harmed trait self-control: why do people with a higher dispositional malicious envy experience lower subjective well-being? a cross-sectional study. Journal of Happiness Studies 20, 523–540.

6. Bowen, M. (1978). Family Therapy in Clinical Practice. Jason Aronson, New York. ISBN 0-87668-761-3.

7. Jealousy and Relationship Closeness: Exploring the Good (Reactive) and Bad (Suspicious) Sides of Romantic Jealousy
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full...

8. An exploratory investigation of jealousy in thefamily
https://www.researchgate.net/publicat...

10. Lange J, Paulhus DL, Crusius J. Elucidating the Dark Side of Envy: Distinctive Links of Benign and Malicious Envy With Dark Personalities. Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2018 Apr;44(4):601-614. doi: 10.1177/0146167217746340. Epub 2017 Dec 22. PMID: 29271287; PMCID: PMC5843025.
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