HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK - THE DISEASE TO PLEASE BY HARRIET B. BRAIKER

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I recall bumping into people who are obsessed with other's approving of them. This is where the disease to please comes into play. The cycle is the following: you fear others' judgments of you being immoral, unconventional, unique, out of the box & so you try to blend in with their standards like a chameleon hence preventing them from disliking you, or so you think. Imagine someone who nods at every nonsense you say, what would you think of him ? is he normal ? Either A. he wants something from you(attraction/approval/praise) & so he's a masked flatterer or B. he's afraid you might judge his unconventionality for his self-esteem is fragile & dependent on other's opinions.

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