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So many standers ask the same painful question:
“Why is my prodigal acting this way?”
In this video, I share parts of my own childhood story so you can see how early wounds shape the way we show up in marriage — especially when conflict, fear, or shame enter the relationship.
Prodigals don’t just wake up one day and become distant, avoidant, angry, or unfaithful.
Their behavior is almost always rooted in:
childhood trauma
attachment wounds
fear of intimacy
fear of failure
shame they don’t know how to face
emotional patterns formed long before marriage
When a spouse runs, shuts down, or steps outside the marriage, it’s rarely about the standing spouse.
It’s about unhealed parts of themselves they’ve been avoiding for years.
By sharing my story, I want to help you understand:
why prodigals disconnect emotionally
why they avoid accountability
why they rewrite the narrative
why they seem cold or indifferent
why they run from the very person who loves them
why they resist God’s conviction
why they often repeat childhood survival patterns in adulthood
Understanding the roots of their behavior doesn’t excuse the pain — but it does bring clarity, compassion, and spiritual insight for your stand.
If you’re standing for your marriage, I pray this video helps you see your prodigal through a lens of truth, not confusion.
God heals hearts, but He also reveals the story behind the wound.
You are not alone in this journey.
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