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Are you bad at handling disagreement? Do you always feel like other people aren’t listening to you when you’re talking? Do you feel unequipped for a conversation that devolves into conflict? Well, you’re in luck because this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart features Julia Minson, Associate Professor of Public Policy at the Harvard Kennedy School. Julia’s research delves deeply into why people disagree, and how people engage with ideas, opinions, and judgements that are different from their own. This episode is exactly what you need to feel more confident during conflict and handle disagreements respectfully and gracefully.

In this episode, Matt and Julia discuss:
• The differences between Disagreement and Conflict
• Julia Minson’s research about methods of disagreement and what we can learn from it.
• The role of curiosity in disagreement.
• Advice on how to keep your personal and professional relationships intact despite disagreements.

So, whether it’s a disagreement with a coworker about the direction of a project or a politically-charged argument with your family over Thanksgiving, Matt and Julia’s practical advice will help you become a better communicator and make sure that you not only disagree better, but also learn more from every second of your life.

Key Quotes
• “One of the things that I find particularly interesting about disagreement is that people believe it to be a good thing … And yet at the same time, it's very, very clear that people don't like it.” – Julia Minson (01:17)
• “There is sort of a really important wrinkle there, which is disagreement and conflict are not actually the same thing. One of the reasons we struggle with disagreement is because we equate it with conflict.” – Julia Minson (02:17)
• “So a lot of the work we've been doing as a consequence of that research is saying, well, let's stop telling people to feel curious and let's start telling people to act curious.” – Julia Minson (06:45)

Chapters
00:00 Introduction
01:55 Disagreement vs. Conflict
07:05 Handling Disagreement Tips & Tricks
15:12 Conflict Resolution
18:53 Matt Abraham's 3 Questions
23:08 Conclusions & Credits

Relevant Links:
Julia Minson: https://www.fastersmarter.io/guests/j...

Episode References:
30. Dissolve Disagreements: How Communication Impact Conflict
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67. What Is Normal? How Culture Affects Communication Styles
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