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In this video, you'll learn exactly how to stop your partner from shutting down during arguments, and how to actually reconnect with them. If you've ever felt that painful silence when they withdraw, this framework will change how you approach those moments.

TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Intro
0:20 - Why your partner shuts down (the real reason)
1:20 - What happens in their nervous system
2:54 - Step 1: Regulate yourself first
4:06 - Step 2: The Permission Script (exact words)
5:20 - Step 3: Honour their answer
6:00 - Recap & how to use this

Stonewalling and emotional shutdown are some of the most painful communication patterns in relationships. When your partner shuts down during an argument, it can feel like rejection, but it's actually their nervous system going into protection mode.

In this video, we break down the three-step framework that helps you reach your partner when they're withdrawn. This isn't about forcing them to talk; it's about creating safety so they want to engage with you.

If you struggle with communication breakdowns, attachment anxiety, or feeling disconnected from your partner, this video will give you a concrete, actionable framework you can use immediately.

Many people find that once they understand why their partner shuts down, they stop taking it personally. That shift alone changes the dynamic of their relationship.

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