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In this raw and deeply honest talk, Nouman Ali Khan sheds light on why so many marriages feel overwhelming, disappointing, and confusing — especially after the honeymoon phase fades.

You chose your spouse. You brought them close. But as soon as things go wrong, your mind starts spiraling:

“Did I make the wrong choice?”
“Why is this so difficult?”
“Do I still have a choice?”

This talk breaks down the root of that anxiety — the false foundation many relationships are built on. We enter marriage based on attraction, good conversations, or emotional highs, but forget that real marriage is about sakinah — peace, tranquility, and calm in one another. Not drama. Not expectations. Not scorekeeping.

Nouman Ali Khan explains how our cultural baggage ruins the essence of what marriage is meant to be. Instead of the bond being about two people, it becomes about everyone else — his mom, her dad, cousins, in-laws, expectations, gifts, phone calls, visits… until the marriage drowns in noise that was never meant to be there.

Before marriage, your connection felt pure because it was just you and them. After marriage, it often becomes you, them, and everyone else's opinion — and that shift breaks the peace.

He also calls out the toxic habit of keeping score — who did what for whom, who said what last Eid, and who forgot to call who. It’s like a war between two tribes, not a partnership based on mercy and love.

If you’re married, about to get married, or even struggling in a relationship, this talk is a must-watch. It reminds us what we’ve lost — and how to build it back again with the right mindset, rooted in the wisdom of Islam.

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