Age Gaps: Are They Always Problematic? | Red & GREEN Flags to Look For

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Age gap relationships: love them or hate them, everyone has an opinion about them! Are age gaps always as problematic as people on the internet believe? Is there really a way to make them healthy, or tell whether or not they'll end up in a bad place from the start? And why are they so common in BDSM anyway? We'll talk about all of this and more in today's video, from the perspective of someone who has been in, and is currently in, multiple age gap relationships as the younger partner.

Book referenced: "Building the Team" by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny

00:00 - introduction
03:38 - my experience
05:24 - age gap discourse online
07:59 - age gaps for the wrong reasons
15:55 - the toxic caregiver
18:36 - age gap red flags
20:55 - age gap GREEN flags
23:06 - shared values are everything
26:50 - age gaps in BDSM
35:30 - final thoughts

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