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Why is it so hard to center women in heterosexual sex?
So. Many. Reasons. We unpack them in this video.

– Video Chapters –
00:00 Introduction
00:20 Why do so many married straight women not enjoy sex?
02:06 The key to good sex
02:24 Centering women in heterosexual sex
03:14 Women's anatomy, left out
04:31 Why sex might not feel good for a woman
05:16 Fun versus consequences, who bears the burden?
06:33 Review: How are men centered in sex?
07:03 Historical context: The creation story
07:44 Historical context: Laws of coverture
08:56 The pressure to please
09:43 Purity culture vs. rape culture
11:34 "Withholding sex"
14:20 Pressure vs. pleasure — overcoming patriarchal sex norms
17:39 Outro and introduction to Celeste Davis

How did patriarchy begin? We made a video about that. — check it out:    • Where Did Patriarchy Come From?  

What Were the Laws of Coverture and How Did They Erase Women? We made a video about that. —    • What Were The Laws of Coverture??  

Check out Celeste's Substack! https://celestemdavis.substack.com/

Additional Reading:
Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski
Ejaculate Responsibly, by Gabrielle Blair
I Have Devoted My Life to the Clitoris, by Elizabeth Hall

About:
Amy McPhie Allebest is a scholar, historian, writer, and independent podcast host. Allebest began the Breaking Down Patriarchy project during her master’s degree at Stanford University in 2020. Her studies there served as the catalyst for the project and podcast. In addition to the project, Allebest is best known for her viral 2016 Medium article titled “Dear Mormon Man, Tell Me What You Would Do.”

The Breaking Down Patriarchy project uses essential historical texts to better understand the origins of patriarchy and to deconstruct its unjust effects on our minds, relationships, and communities. The project envisions a world in which all human beings are able to flourish and reach their unique potential. We strive to include as many voices as possible, and our work is intersectional and inclusive. We are also firmly committed to the well-being of boys and men, and we enthusiastically and gratefully enlist the help of our non-female allies in creating an egalitarian world where everyone can thrive.

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Starring Amy McPhie Allebest and Celeste Davis
Written by Amy McPhie Allebest and Celeste Davis
Videographer and Editor: Ralph Blair