My partner wants to explore kink and I'm vanilla - what do I do? Is BDSM as scary as I heard?

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First of all... EVERYBODY is different. There will always be parts where you have to negotiate, on what you want and what you don't want. But it starts- with being honest to yourself, about what you truly want, and give your partner the space to be honest with themselves about what THEY truly want. And that does not have to be the same for both of you! I know it sounds weird, and I will make another video about it, about negotiating. It's sooo powerful for vanilla couples too, seriously.

Anyway. If your partner is kinky and you are not, I can imagine that you are freaked out. But here's the thing.. he or she dared to be honest with you and share. You may be scared that they will leave you, but they might be as scared as you are. If you both love each other, and you are willing to do whatever it takes to save your relationship, then the difference in kinkiness is not what will break your relationship.

I found this a hard video to make, but I hope it will help you. Because you are not the only one.

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