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Your voice is your personality... 🤯

And a shift in your voice indicates to others a shift in your personality, which scares the people closest to you.

And if you're serious about improving the way you communicate, people's negative reactions toward you can be enough to make you want to revert back to your old ways of communicating.

If you struggle with this, then you need to understand how to frame conversations with these people.

When I started working on my communication skills and for example wanted to increase my volume and speak louder, I framed the conversation to my family and friends by saying "Hey, I've been lazy with my voice for the longest time, and I'm really trying to improve the way I sound, so if you see me doing something with my voice that you're not used to, please encourage me, because I want to get better."

Just a simple frame like that before you change any behaviour will allow people to react more positively towards that new behaviour which helps make it stick.

What's a behaviour you've tried to change in the past that people have reacted negatively towards?