Why Women Flake and Cancel Dates | Top #5 Reasons

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There’s nothing more frustrating than having a date setup only for a woman to flake and cancel at the last minute. To better understand why women flake and cancel dates, it’s important to get inside a woman’s head and understand the female mindset. When a man meets a woman for the first time, he’s usually struck by the visual. He’s intoxicated by the woman’s appearance and can’t stop thinking about her. The same, however, cannot be said of women. When a woman and man meet for the first time, the man is instantly attracted to the woman and curious to get to know more about her. The woman is also curious about the man too and would like to get to know more about him, but not with the same speed and level of intensity.

Before they part ways, the man and woman exchange numbers and express a mutual desire to meet up in the not too distant future. The man goes home and starts to think obsessively about the woman, wondering if he’ll ever see her again. The man is driven, first and foremost, by his biological need to have sex. This life force, or sexual energy, is what drives a man to go out into the world to meet, date, and have sex with women. In contrast, women aren’t propelled by the same life force to go out into the world and have sex in the same way that men are. This is why it’s so much easier for women to be patient in the early stages of a relationship. Before we look at how to handle flaky behavior, it’s important to examine the main reasons why women flake and cancel dates.

SHE’S NOT FEELING IT

She might be having a bad day. She might have had an argument with her best friend. She might be feeling stressed out from work. It’s not that the woman wasn’t feeling good vibes about you, or that she won’t feel good vibes about you in the future, but right now, she isn’t in the mood to see you or anyone else for that matter. That’s not to say she won’t change her mind. A woman’s emotions are never static, and her mood can easily change from happy to sad and back again all within the space of an hour.

SHE’S IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE

Yes, a woman might give you her phone number and flirt with you even if she’s already in a relationship with someone else. She might even be flattered by your attention. That doesn’t mean to say that she’s open to dating you and taking things further. If a woman’s already in love with someone else, nothing you do or say will convince her to throw her current relationship away.

SHE’S LOOKING FOR VALIDATION

Women love getting validation from men because it feeds their ego and makes them feel sexy and beautiful. The man who engages in extended online/phone conversations that lead nowhere does nothing but feed a woman’s ego and desire for validation. A woman might give you her contact details, not because she’s interested in having a relationship with you, but because she wants to feel validated and desired. Your interest makes her feel attractive, that’s all.

SHE HAS A GENUINE REASON

If a woman is on her period, is sick, is under a deadline, or another unexpected problem has occurred, don’t be surprised if she flakes on you. It’s not that she doesn’t want to see you, she does. She just has a genuine reason why she can’t see you right now. If a woman genuinely wants to see you, she’ll get back to you and let you know when she’s available at another time and date that’s more convenient.

SHE’S TESTING YOU

When a woman tests you, she’s looking for visible signs of weakness. Flaking is an easy way to test men for weakness because flaking usually elicits an emotional response, causing most men to respond with anger, frustration, or panic. This tells the woman that the man is overly invested in her before he’s even got to know her. This is a red flag to women. When a woman’s testing you, it’s important to remain calm and unaffected by a woman’s flaky behavior. Expect women to flake and don’t be surprised when it happens.

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