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Does your husband is always on his phone and you don't know what to do? Watch Paul explain this situation and for you to deal with your husband who is always on the phone.

I'm going to try and give you some ideas and it's not going to be sleazy or anything weird like that -- it's going to be practical. First of all, don't break his phone -- that's not what the problem is.
I want to take you back to when you first got married even before and when you thought, "This is the guy. This is the one. I think I want to marry him, have children with him, be with him always,
really enjoy our time together. He's an awesome guy," and all of that he was like the light of your world.

When you wanted to marry him your vision was that you would be happy. You ignored the fact
that over 50% of the people who get married get a divorce, you ignored that. This might even be your second marriage. There are so many of those now but still, you were hopeful and you knew what you wanted even though you never expressed it. You wanted happiness, you wanted your
marriage to be happy. You wanted the happiness that comes with love because love is where it's at. Now, he won't get off his phone, he won't pay attention to you. He's too busy doing his phone.

What happened?

Let's understand something. We human beings are essentially souls and we have a material body, a biological body and we have a mind which is also biological and we also have a mind which is sort of metaphysical. You can't see the mind, the actual mind. You could see the brain but the actual mind is part of you that is neither physical nor spiritual. The soul, purely spiritual. You know what I mean, you can't touch it. You can't sense it with your five senses, the soul is loved.

How do you identify love?

You can't put it in a jar so it's a spiritual part of us but it's the most important part of us and instead of focusing on that, and it's not your fault. We are not taught this stuff anywhere. Instead of focusing on the spiritual side of our marriage somehow, we think all that stuff can be taken care of but it's not. We focus on the material side going to work, taking care of the house, the apartment, cleaning clothes, buying clothes, making sure the car is running right, taking care of the kids -- all this material stuff, the necessities and we skip the most important necessity of marriage that there is.

Don't forget why you got married. You got married to be happy meaning you got married in order to experience unconditional love. Well, instead of doing anything to make that happen you have put all of your activity, all of your actions, all of your efforts into the material side of your marriage. So everyone is bored, everyone is complacent -- they don't know what to do with themselves. It's not fulfilling. If you're on the phone all day you're not fulfilled. You're wasting time. He's wasting time so here's what you do about it. You redirect your energy back to that
which is more important in your marriage which is the love -- it's really that simple.


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