Boyfriend Wants to DITCH Marriage Plans After Meeting My 10 Member Family That Lives In A Cohouse

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I'm a lady aged 26yrs old and I need your help. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We met in University in SA and started dating after we reconnected working at a same restaurant whilst trying to figure out what to do with our qualifications. He left after 2 months and started working for a big retail company ku accounts department. His things were shaping up gore rakasara rapera ane mota and an apartment ikoko ku South Africa.

I moved back to Zim after I received a job offer from tete my dad's sister. We last saw each other in February just after valentine's... So Kudzi my hot topic is my boyfriend hinted marriage in February paakauya akanditi I need to meet your family. This was the first time my boyfriend achiuya kumba kwedu. So he met my mum and my Siblings my dad was away nebasa. Honestly I felt like it was a great meet up. But after this visit I took him to the airport and I didn't hear from him kungoti I landed safely or Hi babe zvaano siita. I sent him a message and he blueticked me. That week he was so off and I was worried kuti maybe my family members said something that put him off... So takachovha 2 weeks with this weird vibe until I finally decided to ask kuti chii... And he asked me kuti munogara muri vangani pamba penyu... I Said 10 my parents ini my 5 Siblings and my mum's sister and her son... we stay in Warren Park in Call house 🏠... He said to me I obviously love you but your background is an issue of great concern kumba kwenyu ndiwe mukuru and I will be mkwasha wekutanga I fear kuzo omeserwa vanhu vakuda kupedza nhamo ne twumari twushoma twandaita... He said I'm pointing this out because I saw it happening to my own brother. I felt weak and reduced to nothing KVG nhamo yekumba kwedu was getting in the way of my relationship. I told him that's my family there's nothing chandinga chinje ukuda ndiite sei...??? He said allow me to consult my brothers so that I can make a decision kuti ndiroore here... Just imagine.... So I'm enduring the biggest heartache right now because akangonyarara I don't know what to do in-between the thinking yaari kuita do I text him and call as normal or I wait on his decision please help me vedare I'm stuck here...