If I could tell ONE thing to the entire world!

This is the best advice which in some shape or form basically applies to everyone and is in my opinion so crucial to find inner peace and a safe place in society. It is by far the most important thing I learned through therapy and life experience and its strings attach to any conflict I ever had with anyone, either on their or my side or both or the consequence of a world view like this. Living with assumptions about others instead of talking to them is the breeding ground for unsafety, hatred, feeling of isolation, unfairness, misunderstanding and a you vs. them mentality. Which is not only pulling you into fight flight or fright, but also putting your social circle on edge. Getting it is one part, really applying it in every way another. This is definitely a journey for life, because while some of the examples I told you are very obvious to see and therefore easy to change, other parts lie far beneath the surface and are way harder to see. But this was THE mindset change which pulled me out of the worst toxic relationship I've ever been in, even though I still have a lot to learn and work on to fully grasp and apply this. But one thing which is sure, this is removing so many wars, conflicts and negative feelings from your daily life, making you happier, more hopeful and will make social connections way easier and safer.
Anyway thats my big sister advice to you and I wish I wouldve understood that sooner, cause boy could I have saved myself from some of the stuff, so I hope this might reach someone, who can use hearing it ❤
And I would LOVE love love hearing your asnwer in the comments to "If I could tell one thing to the whole world, it would be ....... " Imagine how much we all could learn ❤
love you cuties, be safe

oh and if anyone has any questions, just ask in the comments or ask me on stream ❤   / cutecrait