Tumblr Doesn't Understand BDSM: The Non-Sexual Kink Controversy

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In this video, we discuss a recent viral poll on vanilla Tumblr. To start off Pride month a large argument was started about whether or not kink is always about sex. So let's talk about it, with science!

00:00 - introduction
02:00 - "is kink always sexual?"
04:07 - the standard response
07:37 - why this is so difficult to understand
09:37 - non-sexual BDSM is scary
12:45 - "but the dictionary says...!"
20:43 - saying kink isn't sexual is sex-negative
29:50 - CITATION NEEDED
34:35 - serious leisure
41:26 - if it's not sexual... what IS it?
45:04 - final thoughts

CITATIONS:

Stebbins, R. A. (1982). Serious Leisure: A Conceptual Statement. The Pacific Sociological Review, 25(2), 251–272. https://doi.org/10.2307/1388726

Stebbins, R.A. (2006). Serious Leisure. In: Rojek, C., Shaw, S.M., Veal, A.J. (eds) A Handbook of Leisure Studies. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9780230625181_27

Newmahr, Staci. (2010). Rethinking Kink: Sadomasochism as Serious Leisure. Qualitative Sociology. 33. 313-331. 10.1007/s11133-010-9158-9.

Sprott, Richard & Williams, D. (2019). Is BDSM a Sexual Orientation or Serious Leisure?. Current Sexual Health Reports. 11. 10.1007/s11930-019-00195-x.

Williams, D., & Prior, E. (2015). “Wait, go back, I might miss something important!” Applying leisure 101 to simplify and complicate BDSM. Journal of Positive Sexuality, 1(3), 63–69. https://doi.org/10.51681/1.134

Langdridge, D., & Lawson, J. (2019). The Psychology of Puppy Play: A Phenomenological Investigation. Archives of sexual behavior, 48(7), 2201–2215. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-019-01...

Wismeijer, A. A. J., Pascoal, P. M., Powls, J., Williams, D. J., Weinberg, T. S., Taylor, G., & Hebert, A. (2016, May 24). Is bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism recreational leisure? A descriptive exploratory investigation. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science...

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