Скачать или смотреть Phil Kayes lost nearly 22st and is named Slimming World's Greatest Loser 2020

A Belfast man who was once so overweight he feared he would die in his sleep has lost an incredible 21st 10½lb/304½lbs/137kg to be named Slimming World’s Greatest Loser 2020, a competition which celebrates the person who has achieved the highest weight loss of all Slimming World’s members. Phil Kayes, 47, from Bangor, County Down, was warned by his doctors that he would be ‘lucky to see 40’ because of the strain his weight was putting on his health. Phil was recently ill with what was thought to be Covid-19, and he believes that he wouldn't have survived if he hadn’t lost weight. “I dread to think how my body would have responded. It was a timely reminder of how important my health is,” he says.
At his heaviest Phil suffered a string of other health issues including pressure on his knees and sleep apnoea. Phil, who has slimmed from 37st 2½lbs to 15st 6lbs in three years, says: “I was always bigger than my peers – I remember at school being called out by my PE teacher for being too big to play football. The weight really started to pile on though when I started university. My size meant that my life became increasingly insular and I made up a variety of excuses not to go out.
“I’d avoid gatherings like parties and weddings because I just felt so uncomfortable. I knew I wouldn’t fit into a plane seat so I never travelled, even though I really wanted to. Apart from my job as a civil servant, I didn’t really do anything except hide away and eat. It was a very lonely time.”
Phil realised he had to do something about his weight when his mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He says: “Mum was facing her fourth cancer battle which sadly turned out to be her last. The news sort of spurred me into action and I knew this time I had to try and be as healthy as I could – not just for her but for me as well. I was also worried that if my mum did pass away, I wouldn’t be able to be one of her pallbearers, which was heart-breaking. She died in October 2017, by which point I’d lost 5st. I know she’d be really proud if she could see me now – more than 21st lighter.”
Phil was encouraged to join Slimming World by a friend who agreed to attend his local group with him. He says: “I was, of course, nervous on that first night but it really helped to have my friend Laura beside me. I even contacted the Consultant in advance to check the scales would be able to weigh me. The last time I’d weighed myself was at the hospital, where I had to stand on two sets of scales just to get a reading. My Consultant assured me that there was nothing to worry about and she was right – everyone was so supportive and friendly and although it was a shock to see the scales hit 37st, for the first time – thanks to her kindness and hearing about Slimming World’s plan – I felt like I could do something about it.
He soon got to grips with Slimming World’s Food Optimising eating plan, which enables slimmers to lose weight while enjoying a wide variety of foods – like lean meat, potatoes, pasta, fruit and vegetables. He says: “In the past I’d been referred to dieticians and dabbled with intermittent fasting and restricting my portions. I would lose weight initially but I could never stick to it because I was hungry most of the time. What was so different about Slimming World was that I could still eat hearty meals to satisfy my appetite while losing weight. It felt like a bit of a lightbulb moment when I realised losing weight didn’t have to mean starving yourself. I was a bit vegetable-phobic when I first joined but now one of my favourite dishes is a Mediterranean vegetable pasta – and I even tend to an allotment with a veggie patch!
The group environment really helped me too because for the first time I was surrounded by people who knew how it felt to struggle with their weight. Checking in with everyone each week has been invaluable and I have learned so much from everyone. I attend virtually now that we’re in lockdown, which is really great and helps keep me on track. I couldn’t be without them.”
Since halving his bodyweight, Phil has become much more active – and has started cycling again after a near 30-year absence from the activity. Now I’ve started cycling again, I can walk without getting out of breath and I also enjoy yoga. It’s a completely different life to the one I had before – one that is full of opportunities, friends and adventures.”
One such adventure is the one he is embarking on with his partner, Nicole Mulholland: “By far the best thing that has happened to me since losing weight is meeting Nicole. When I was bigger I couldn’t imagine ever finding love and felt resigned to dying alone. Nowfor the first time in a long time, I’m excited about the future.”
Since the temporary suspension of its 19,000 community groups, due to COVID-19 Slimming World has launched a virtual weight-loss service to continue to support people to stay on track with healthy habits and lose weight.