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The Subtle Childhood Wound That Shapes Your Attachment Style || DR. GABOR MATÉ BEST SPEECH ||

We often ask, “What’s wrong with me?”—but the deeper, more healing question is “What happened to me?” In this powerful 25 minute motivational talk, you’ll discover how subtle childhood wounds shape our attachment styles, our relationships, and even our coping habits. Through compassionate storytelling and practical steps, you’ll learn how the body remembers what the mind forgets—and how awareness, inquiry, boundaries, and safe connection can begin to gently heal old survival patterns.

This is not about blame. It’s about understanding. It’s about finding relief, courage, and hope in the small steps forward.

✨ Timestamps:

0:00 – The paradox that opens the wound and the question we all carry
1:35 – Why it’s not “what’s wrong with you,” but “what happened to you”
4:20 – Story of Maya: choosing emotionally distant partners
9:15 – Insights on attachment and childhood misattunement
11:40 – Story of Daniel: numbing through work, scrolling, and substances
16:00 – Why the question is not “why the addiction?” but “why the pain?”
18:30 – The body remembers: implicit memory and the mind–body connection
21:00 – First practical steps: awareness, inquiry, somatic pause, boundaries, safe connection
23:10 – Closing invitation: safety, gentleness, and one step this week

Why Watch This:
Because this talk gives you more than theory—it offers compassion, clarity, and small steps you can actually take. If you’ve ever wondered why you repeat painful patterns in love, or why numbing feels easier than feeling, this will help you see yourself without shame and remind you: healing begins with safety, awareness, and connection.

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Keywords:

childhood trauma, attachment style, emotional neglect, gabor mate speech, trauma healing, self compassion, inner child healing, relationship patterns, addiction recovery, why the pain, mind body connection, implicit memory, nervous system healing, emotional healing, trauma awareness, setting boundaries, safe connection, trauma informed, compassionate inquiry, healing journey, anxiety relief, trauma patterns, motivational speech, personal growth, self awareness