Are you behaving in alignment with the person you want to be?

Are you behaving in alignment with the person you want to be?

Tonight on Ask Leah I share the story of a man in one of my recent workshops who had a huge lightbulb moment when reflecting on the way he parents his teenage boys.

Click on the video below to hear it.

Although the task was to self-reflect on your behaviour in the workplace, as so often happens in my trainings, our minds drift to how we show up at home too.

The questions I asked participants to reflect on were these:

1. What do you want to be known for? What do you want people to say about you when you're not in the room?

2. How are you showing up? What's it actually like to be around you and does your communication and behaviour match the sort of person you want to be?

These are big questions and when you have the courage to really go there and reflect with brutal honesty, the awareness that you're not modelling the behaviour you want can hit like a punch in the gut.

It's powerful, confronting, and for some, life and relationship changing.

At the end of the training, this man shared his story with me and said thank you.

Now that he knew better, he promised to try and do better.

That, my friends, is why I do what I do.

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Hi, I'm Leah Mether, a communication and human skills specialist who is obsessed with making the people part of leadership and work life easier.

If you have a communication, leadership, emotional intelligence, self-management or tricky people problem question you'd like answered, send it through and I'll do my best to answer it in next week's episode of Ask Leah.


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