Subtle/covert manipulative abuse patterns toxic healthharm chocies that enables self betrayal trauma

In this video I explore the different ways in which people can enable their own self betrayal, continue a toxic pattern with partners that enable abuse, or lose their self respect by being unauthentic with their partners about their needs, by holding unrealistic or illusory expectations with their partners, or when people victimise themselves by not acknowledging the alternative chocies they had regarding priorities, or when people fail to acknowledge the value of the authentic and balanced feminine energy in themselves or their partners or family that could have enabled a better life path choice- if their feminine energy was valued and respected in right aligned and balanced ways.

Reference Videos:
1) When men prioritise their sexual needs over soul needs, and end up saying one thing choosing the opposite.
   • But you will find one #queenscrown #t...  

2) Woman choosing my body my choice at the expense of inauthentic life with a partner and devaluing both their and their partner's feminine energy.
   • My Wife Looks Like An Alien 🤢💔 Reddit...  

3) Man setting boundary in his second marriage, after wife breached one evident and few other less evident relationship boundaries -
   • AITA for canceling the birthday party?  

4) Covert Manipulative or Coercive Abuse example -When people want to play victim in a relationship where they had better alternative chocies to be caretaken by their partner.
   • My Husband Thinks I’m His Maid 🥺💔 Red...  

5) What modern men and women should look for in a partner, not just men. Too many women chose the man who seem to just look good on paper or based on socioeconomic measures; yet the true high value man isn't going to seek validation outside marriage for his ego boost either, would be focused on his relationship, partnership goals, family needs- and also family needs of the spouses family.
That's what a true balanced equal partnership is, both partners being equally invested in each others' lives and problem solving or taking care of each other; anyone outside of this basic parameters of marriage is usually living in breadcrumbs of love or manipulative one or conflict filled one or disrespect filled one.