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In this powerful talk, we dive deep into one of the most important — and challenging — questions: How do you fix broken patterns at different stages of life? Whether you’re the little girl, the wife, the daughter-in-law, or even the mother-in-law, the answer is the same — healing is possible. But you can't fix another person unless they want to change.

As women, we often fall into the trap of thinking we can save others by sacrificing ourselves. But true healing starts with healing ourselves. You cannot drown yourself to save someone else. The best way to help others, especially children, is by healing your own wounds and modeling healthier patterns.

We explore the importance of breaking cycles of emotional neglect and abuse, and how unconditional love in early childhood plays a critical role in brain development. Studies show that the foundation of a child’s emotional and neurological health is built in the first three years — a time when they need secure attachment, not abandonment.

We also talk about how boundaries are essential, even if they upset others. Healing means learning to recognize your God-given worth and refusing to tolerate mistreatment. It’s important to remember: you do not need anyone’s permission to set boundaries. Children model what they see — and when we accept mistreatment, we unknowingly teach them to do the same.

Finally, we address the idea that "you’ve changed" is often said as an insult, but in truth, change is a sign of life, growth, and spiritual health. Staying stuck is the real danger. Growth is necessary, even if it makes others uncomfortable. #Muslimah #ModestFashion #HijabStyle #IslamicSisters #MuslimWoman