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Therapist Meg Josephson and I explore the fawn response, a survival strategy where safety is sought by pleasing other people. We discuss how fawning can start as self-protection in childhood, but later morph into overthinking, hypervigilance, and self-abandonment. Meg shares her own experience, including how fawning creates resentment and makes it difficult to find a healthy relationship or figure out your authentic needs. Topics include becoming aware of unconscious habits, building distress tolerance, grief, self-compassion, healthy boundaries, and speaking up for ourselves.

Key Topics:
0:00 Introduction
1:18 Self-sabotage as self-protection
4:01 Bringing the unconscious fawn response into awareness
9:51 Silencing wants and needs, conflict avoidance, and resentment
14:33 Rediscovering wants and needs after people pleasing
18:05 The healing arc: grief, anger, and relationship
25:30 Viewing people pleasing as a “part” rather than an identity
30:11 Nice vs. compassionate
51:36 Hypervigilance and the NICER practice
57:22 Authenticity as “uncovering” rather than “fixing”
1:03:02 Recap

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