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This goes back to 2018 when my daughter was 14.
We are an open minded family. I always discuss good and bad with my kids from an early age. As all kids they also play games on phone/Xbox etc
I noticed that my daughter was getting conscious in my presence around her. I also noticed her changed behavior: she was avoiding me and her younger sisters. Also she was questioning all house rules.
So one day while she was at school, I checked her phone and I can't explain how shocked I was. She had been chatting with a boy since months. Initially it was about toys and games.
Then after few weeks the conversation was changed. How your parents treat you, don't you want freedom and later the boy was asking her to send pics, home videos, number of siblings m and other personal information. He shared a lot of sexual jokes, memes, reels - which she was even unable to understand.
Thank God she denied sending in her pictures but he was constantly asking for it.
That day was the toughest day of my life.
At that moment all I wanted to do was to cry and slap her, shout at her, take her gadgets and lock her in her room.
BUT
I locked myself in my room for hours without telling anyone.
I cried, prayed in front of Allah to help me and then I made a 6 months plan.
1. My first step was to talk to her calmly as I always. 2. After this alarming reaction. I was so confused and anxious.
I researched on this for hours and then I started my plan.
3. Then I discussed it with my husband BUT not in detail.
I knew it would not be as easy for him to stay calm. It was necessary to take him in confidence because anything could happen (God forbid even suicide)
We discussed that we'll be on same page at every step.
4. At first I was not convinced to take her tablet (giving her tablet without parental settings was my big mistake which I realized later) but my husband convinced me that this is an addiction and it is necessary to break that contact. 5. So I talked to her again in a cool and calm tone that for some time l'm taking your tablet because as parents we think you need some time to think and focus. She begged, cried for hours and I sat there hugging her.
6. Sometimes she cried inside pillow and without saying a single word. I used to hug her.
I was with her 24/7 but without discussing this topic.
I saw the symptoms of withdrawal. She was scratching her body with sharp pencil, she cut her hair etc
7. For the next 2 or 3 weeks I took care of her like a baby.
I showered her with love, took her to all her favorite places and restaurants, bought board games, invited her school friends at home, downloaded her favorite movies with her. 8. As a mother I was so tense, hid all sharp objects from home, was crying inside but I never showed any emotion to her.
9. I loved and spent so much time with her she became confused whether she should love me or hate me. she was not ready to talk to me at that time
And it continues for weeks.
10. After few weeks,when she was ready to talk and I talked to her in detail.
At that time she was able to analyze her own situation.
I told her the consequences and offered her that I can give her everything with parental controls and there are some boundaries otherwise things are not going to change. 1. I told her that I trust her completely and it appens that we misjudge people. She greed and I gave her the tablet (I can't tell ou how difficult it was for me.
2. I talked to her favorite teacher as well, sok her in confidence and she helped me 000 much. She gave her topics to research nd write about internet crimes etc
3. After 1 year she came to me and admitted nat you were right. That was the moment I ave been waiting for months! At times I miled in front of her and cried in washrooms
veryday I asked my husband "kuch ho gaya
" and he said "Dua karo, kuch nahi hoga"Love, Dua, Calmness and Communication were my strengths BUT it was so difficult. I'm writing all this for all mothers. Kids are facing so much challenges nowadays, as parents we need each other's experiences to guide them and to save them.