Healing Bullying Trauma Allows You To Embrace Your Authenticity

An inspirational talk about navigating bullying, maintaining my sense of self-worth, and popping out and being myself any fuckin' way! PERIODT✌🏾✊🏾🤘🏾

0:00 - Intro: I moved
0:40 - My Bullying History
5:55 - Mobbing: Bullying Trauma Cycles in the Workplace
8:38 - Self-Love Even When People Abuse Me
9:42 - Black AFAB People Sabotaging Me at Work
10:35 - Still loving Black Women after Being On HRT
11:09 - People Recognizing Me Post-Medical Transition
11:35 - How People Femme AFAB People Mob Trans-Masc People at Work
12:34 - Black Trans-Masc Self-Advocacy at Work
13:29 - Life Being Much Harder Now that I Present as Male (& Femme)
14:41 - Why We Have To Stand Up To Bullies (A Inner Child Perspective)
15:12 - Fuck It
15:45 - What To Do When You're Being Bullied & Cultivating A Healthy Support System Soul Tribe
17:17 - People Sabotaging Me & Themselves & Using My Vision To Navigate Institutions
18:00 - Setting Boundaries W/ My Students & Engaging Masculinity W/ Self-Awareness
19:13 - Setting Boundaries W/ Emotionally Immature Adults & Individuation
20:15 - Helping People Who Harm Me? & Forgiveness?
20:53 - Standing Up To Transphobia, Misogynoirist Black Women
22:00 - Medical Transitioning as The Process of Healing Internalized Misogynoir
22:39 - The Category of "Black Womanhood," Internalized Misogynoir, & Sexual Harassment From Black Women
24:24 - Decolonize, Decolonize, Decolonize Gender Identity
25:04 - Navigating & Experiencing Disillusionment About Patriarchy & Power
25:36 - Censorship of Black Trans Writers
26:04 - My Personal Power & Dodging People's Envy
27:17 - The Principalities of Speaking Out As Self-Liberation
28:36 - Humble Confidence versus Competitive People
29:08 - Who You Gon Fuck Wit?: Building Connection W/ Safe People at Work
33:33 - My Vision For Black Community, The World, & Radical Black Trans Self-Love
37:17 - Setting Myself Free & Loving Myself No Matter What
38:56 - Letting Go of Putting the Weight of the World On My Shoulders
41:00 - Choosing Myself & Being Dat Bitch
42:55 - My Gratitude For Black Trans Queer Life, The Pop Out, & My Vision For Us
48:12 - Mirroring Myself & Setting Myself Free To Revolutionize Black Life By Thriving
50:30 - Popping Out & Being A Leader So I Can Enjoy My Life