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Dating isn’t the problem.
Alignment is.

In this episode of Vibe N Affirmations, I’m talking about what happens when you’re not hard to love — just hard to keep. When people are drawn to you, but don’t stay. When attraction is easy, but commitment feels rare.

We get into:

Why attraction doesn’t equal intention

The difference between discernment and self-sabotage

Being clear about what you want in a low-effort dating era

Why “good vibes” don’t always lead to real alignment

How standards get mislabeled as being “hard to please”

This isn’t dating advice.
This is self-awareness.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:
“Is it me… or is it just not aligned?”
This episode is for you.

🎧 If you’re done forcing connections and ready to choose clarity — press play.

Connect with me:
Instagram: @vibenaffirmations
Podcast: Vibe N Affirmations

Stay solid. Honor your clarity. Trust your timing. Don’t rush what’s meant to last. And as always—keep vibinggggg.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS (CHAPTERS)
00:00 — Why attraction is easy but nobody stays
00:16 — You’re not struggling to attract people… just the right one
00:56 — Affirmation: I am not difficult, I am discerning
01:25 — Attraction vs retention (the real issue)
02:06 — Am I a phase? An experience? A placeholder?
02:55 — Appreciation vs understanding
03:42 — “What do you actually want?”
04:24 — If that sounds like a lot, you were never gonna last anyway
04:33 — Dating in a low-effort era
05:09 — Discernment vs self-sabotage
06:06 — Am I hard to please or just done settling?
06:42 — Reflection question
07:31 — Outro
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