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Sometimes the most confusing part isn’t that something feels wrong.
It’s that it feels so real.

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet difference between limerence and love — not the obvious red flags, not the textbook definitions, but the difference you feel in your body when nothing dramatic is happening.

Limerence can feel intense, urgent, meaningful.
Love often feels calmer, steadier, and less demanding.

And if no one ever taught you what safety feels like in connection, intensity can be easy to mistake for depth.

In this conversation, Big Sis gently walks you through:

Why intensity can feel like love when safety was inconsistent

How urgency and anxiety get mistaken for chemistry

The difference between fantasy and real emotional presence

Why calm can feel boring when your nervous system is used to chaos

How love feels in your body when it doesn’t need to prove itself

This isn’t about judging your past or shaming yourself for caring deeply.
It’s about understanding why certain connections felt irresistible — and why others felt strangely flat.

If you’ve ever wondered why love felt anxious instead of safe…
why peace felt unfamiliar…
or why you stayed confused even when you were trying to be self-aware…

You’re not broken.
Your nervous system learned a language that made sense at the time.

And once you can feel the difference between limerence and love, you can’t unfeel it.

If this put words to something you’ve been carrying quietly, you’re not alone.
Like the video if it helped, subscribe if you want more conversations like this, and feel free to share it with someone who’s been blaming themselves for feeling “too much.”

Big Sis has your back 💛
Take care of yourself.

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