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Today's story is worth watching and listening to very carefully. Because before telling the story, I have to say that there are two types of children. One is those who respect their parents but are not afraid and spend less time studying and more time playing. Those children are less educated. The other type of children grow up under the shadow of their parents, they obey everything they say, they sleep and wake up according to their wishes. That is why they become doctors, pilots, scientists or engineers because they have to study day and night for this. Children who wait for their parents' instructions are deprived of the power of decision to some extent. They listen carefully to everything their parents say and act accordingly. The second thing is that no woman brings a daughter-in-law to her house because she will humiliate and disgrace her, and no girl gets married because she will quarrel with her mother-in-law. Then why is it that a mother-in-law who is seen praising her daughter-in-law before marriage does evil things after marriage? And a girl who was in love with her mother-in-law before marriage, speaks ill of her mother-in-law after marriage. Is it?
Today's story is about a doctor who works in Salalah, Oman. The doctor's name is Tahir. Tahir was married by his mother Yasmin of her own choice. Before the wedding, Tahir promised that he would take his wife Saima with him to Salalah.
But later, the mother-in-law said that the daughter-in-law should stay in Pakistan for some time so that the daughter-in-law learns the traditions of our family. Saima wanted to go to Oman with her husband, but she let her husband go with a stone in her heart. But then the mother-in-law started interfering in everything that Saima did. When Saima would answer, her husband would call her and say, "You are mistreating my mother." Saima could neither set up her room nor get AC installed, nor could she go anywhere on her own. The differences between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law increased. On one hand, the wife would call her husband and complain to her husband, on the other hand, the mother would complain to her son. Now, in this whole situation, no one was thinking about what Dr. Tahir was going through. Whenever Tahir came to Pakistan, he would get caught in the middle of a fight between his mother and wife, and finally, believing his mother to be right, he would put pressure on his wife and leave. Saima became the mother of two children, but her mother-in-law did not let her go to Oman. On the other hand, Saima's restraint was paying off. At the behest of her husband, the wife had apologized to her mother-in-law several times. Dr. Tahir's sleep had been disturbed. He took his wife to Oman on the advice of a psychiatrist. The mother told her son that your wife is unfaithful and will leave you alone one day, then you will regret it. This matter settled in Dr. Tahir's heart and mind. He felt that she was telling the truth, that my wife would leave me alone and my children would be ruined. That is why Tahir's behavior changed. He first shouted at his wife, then it came to beating her. On one hand, his parents had broken off their relationship, on the other hand, his relationship with his wife had deteriorated. His mother-in-law used to say that if you send your wife back to Pakistan, we will agree with you. His wife said that I will die but I will not go to that hell. Otherwise, divorce me. I will not live with you. The petty arguments and differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law made Dr. Tahir mentally ill. Today, Tahir is a sick man. He thinks that his wife will leave him and if his wife leaves, she will also take the children. He loves his children very much. Now, the situation is that Tahir takes sleeping pills to sleep at night and his wife is stubborn and says that I have endured a lot of injustice. Now, she will not tolerate it anymore. On the other hand, his mother says that you have nothing to do with us. In the middle, Dr. Tahir has gone mad. I don't see a good ending to this story, but the purpose of telling the story is only that after marriage, if the mother-in-law gives some concessions to the daughter-in-law and the daughter-in-law understands the mother-in-law's words, then the house can be settled. And if the mother-in-law opposes in the same way, then the loss will be on the man's side, just like today, Dr. Tahir is standing on the verge of madness.
Gentleness, love, sincerity keep the house settled, and arguments and disagreements destroy it.
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