10 Game-Changing Tips for Managing the Mental Load with ADHD

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I recently sat down with Laura Key on the ADHD Aha! podcast to talk all about life as a new mom with ADHD. We dive into the unique challenges, how my ADHD has shifted, and the strategies I’m using to cope. It’s real, it’s honest, and I hope it helps!

Hello, Brains! Today, we're diving into something a lot of us with ADHD struggle with—mental load. You know, that never-ending to-do list in your brain that makes you feel like you're juggling a million things at once? Yeah, that! I’m super excited to have Laura Key from the ADHD Aha! Podcast and Understood.org join me to talk about why mental load is so exhausting, especially for those of us with ADHD. So if you’ve ever felt like your brain is on overdrive, this one’s for you!

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What's in this video:
00:00 Introduction
01:41 Guest Introduction: Laura Key from ADHD Aha!
02:50 What We Mean When We Say Mental Load
04:20 Impact of Mental Load on ADHD
04:48 What is Working Memory?
07:21 What is Emotional Dysregulation?
17:27 Strategies To Lighten the Mental Load
17:47 Strategy #1: Offer Choices
19:28 Strategy #2: Externalize As Much As Possible
21:36 Strategy #3: Create Visual Cues
22:20 Strategy #4: Have Less Stuff To Manage (At Once)
24:16 Strategy #5: Set reminders
25:45 Strategy #6: Delegate Entire Areas of Responsibility
27:42 Strategies To Manage the Emotional Dysregulation
28:09 Strategy #7: Be Kind To Yourself
28:54 Strategy #8: Get Sleep!
29:28 Strategy #9: Get Some Perspective
30:03 Strategy #10: Adjust Your Standards/Expectations