HAD A BABY WITH THE WRONG WOMAN NOW THE KIDS ARE SUFFERING

In this video I would like to talk to men about something that we rarely ever talk about in regards to having children. Having children with a woman that we are no longer in a relationship with to be exact. You see, we often hear stories of men being put on child support or dealing with toxic baby mamas or even going through family court. But I would be willing to bet that you have never had a conversation about what the kids are actually going through mentally, because of these unfortunate circumstances. At least not from this point of view!

If you haven't already heard, I have 50/50 custody of my two children. Me and their mother are no longer together and I've seen first hand how my kids have been effected by our arrangement. Of course it's good that I am equally involved in their lives. But it still can be damaging to the children in some ways. For example I told a story in this video about how my daughter had a hard time yesterday when I dropped them off to her mom. She was torn between staying another night with her dad or staying with her mom and that was hard for me to deal with as a dad. She was crying like somebody had died, so I know it felt alot worse for her and I wish that my children never had to go through that. If somebody would've told me about this aspect of being a single parent I definitely would've been alot more careful. That's why I made this video... I feel that it's important for all men to think about these things before they sleep around with different women that they have no intention on marrying. Sex feels good, but it can also bring a lifetime of pain for not only yourself, but your kids as well. Take it from me and don't do what I did!!!

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