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In this video, Gabor Maté explains why siblings often have different experiences and perceptions of their upbringing, even though they were raised by the same parents. He challenges the common assumption that siblings grow up in the same environment, highlighting that each child experiences their parents differently. This difference arises because parents inevitably show up in unique ways for each child, influenced by factors like the child’s gender, the parents' cultural programming, and the stage of life or relationship the parents are in at the time.

Gabor emphasizes that even if parents try to treat their children equally, they cannot help but interact with each child based on their own evolving circumstances and the distinct personalities of each child. For example, the way parents relate to their first child might be different from how they relate to their second, simply due to changes in their own lives, their relationship with each other, or their personal growth. Additionally, siblings often have different levels of sensitivity and temperaments, which means that even the same parental behavior can be perceived in entirely different ways by each child.

The key takeaway from Gabor’s insights is that each sibling grows up in a uniquely personal version of the family environment, shaped by the complex interplay of parental behavior, timing, and individual sensitivity. This understanding helps explain why siblings can have vastly different memories and feelings about their childhood, despite sharing the same household.