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How do you parent a wicked smart but unmotivated teen who is falling behind in four AP classes? In this video, we dive into the real-life scenario behind the article “Parents at odds over ‘wicked smart’ teen who’s behind in four APs” and break down what’s really going on.
You’ll learn:
Why some high-achieving, highly intelligent teens suddenly lose motivation in school.
How taking too many AP classes can backfire academically and emotionally.
The hidden costs of lectures, pressure, and constant ‘fixing’ from parents.
Why empathy, collaboration, and realistic expectations work better than power struggles.
Practical scripts for talking to your teen about school without starting a fight.
How co-parents can get on the same page when one wants “tough love” and the other wants a gentler approach.
Signs your teen may be overwhelmed, burned out, anxious, or neurodivergent rather than lazy.
This video is for parents of high schoolers—especially those navigating AP overload, perfectionism, or burnout in smart teens. It’s inspired by the dynamics described in the Carolyn Hax column about a 17-year-old junior who chose four APs despite a history of missing work and is now underwater.
We’ll also cover:
When to step in with limits (dropping a class, changing schedules, setting boundaries around screen time).
When to step back and let natural consequences do the teaching.
How to advocate for your teen at school and when to consider therapy or executive function coaching.
Watch until the end for a short, step-by-step framework you and your co-parent can use tonight to reset expectations, reduce conflict, and support your teen’s long-term motivation and mental health.
No professional or legal advice is being given; this is educational information only and should not replace guidance from qualified professionals in your area.