Скачать или смотреть Exploring Islam & Intimacy: An In-Depth Interview with Habeeb Akande - (Episode 2)

Discussion Points:

1. So we have men ask if anime porn is a sin since they are not actually real and if it can be used as an alternative to real pornography, is that ok and what are some other developments in the pornographic scene people should be aware of and the potential damage. 

2. What if men say it's easier said than done, back in the day they didn't have pornography, now it's everywhere. Resisting is hard and they had it good back in the time of the prophet and the sahabas?

3. A man has a few of these side Effects of porn right now, how does he get himself off pornography what practices do you think he can do to fix the effects on my body? Let's go through them one at a time

4. Now he is in a better place but he does have other problems. He loves his wife but after seeing her private area, It doesn't look appealing to him. He would rather have intercourse with the lights off or avoid all eye contact. Is this normal or does he have a problem? 

5. Ok now he understands but he does face another challenge, she enjoys oral sex and so does he but he finds it difficult because of the smell texture and taste. He’s uncertain if this is normal for all women or if there is a way to politely discuss and navigate around this? Is it a hygiene issue? A diet issue? Are there any practices they should incorporate before intercourse?

6. Another issue they face is she complains about the same, she says she wants him to shave that area because it contributes to smell and bacteria. Is that so and what should he do as a man to improve his hygiene? 
7. Now that these issues have been improved upon, he feels emasculated because she lasts longer in bed. Are there any physical and diet practices you can recommend to avoid premature ejaculation and to have firmer erections during intercourse? 

8. Things have improved but she has gotten bored of late, are sex toys permissible? And what other practices can you recommend to spice things up in the bedroom?

9. Let's talk about the way the male and female brain are wired when it comes to intimacy. Would you say we see and treat it differently? 

10. How do I constantly evolve as a man to make sure my wife always sees me in that light in a way that doesn't come at the cost of my mental health? What discussions do I need to have with her? What practices should I start as a man that looks forward to marriage and as a man trying to fix his marriage?