Servant-Leaders QASP- 3rd Placer Harana sa B-D ni Maria

Friday in 24th Sunday of OT
NOVENA IN HONOR OF SAN LORENZO RUIZ
First Filipino Canonized Saint, the Martyr of Faith
-San Lorenzo Ruiz was willing to sacrifice his life rather than renounce his faith. His martyrdom is a testament to the ultimate sacrifice for Christ.

2nd Day of Novena: S-A-
A – Apostolic Enthusiasm
Lorenzo joined Dominican missionaries in Japan, showing his dedication to spreading the Gospel, even in the face of extreme danger.

Let me share an Fb post:

“How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes"

Is a practical guide that offers techniques to improve communication skills and build strong relationships in both personal and professional settings.

Here are ten key lessons from the book:

1. First Impressions Matter: The way you present yourself in the first few seconds of meeting someone can set the tone for the entire relationship. Lowndes emphasizes the importance of confident body language, a warm smile, and maintaining eye contact to create a positive first impression.

2. The Power of Listening: Effective communication isn’t just about speaking well; it’s about listening attentively. By showing genuine interest in what others have to say, you make them feel valued and respected, which strengthens your connection.

3. Use the “Big Baby Pivot”: This technique involves subtly changing the subject if a conversation becomes uncomfortable or unproductive. By steering the discussion back to neutral or positive topics, you maintain a pleasant interaction without awkwardness.

4. Mirroring: People tend to like others who are similar to them. Lowndes suggests subtly mirroring the body language, tone, and pace of the person you're speaking with to build rapport and make them feel more comfortable.

5. Avoiding Verbal Pauses: Filler words like “um,” “uh,” and “you know” can make you seem less confident and articulate. Lowndes advises practicing speaking without these verbal pauses to enhance your communication clarity and authority.

6. The Importance of Names: Using someone’s name in conversation makes them feel recognized and valued. Lowndes suggests making an effort to remember and use names, especially when meeting new people, as it helps build a stronger connection.

7. Compliments that Count: Compliments are more impactful when they are specific and sincere. Instead of generic praise, focus on something unique about the person that genuinely impresses you. This shows you are paying attention and appreciate their qualities.

8. The “Hansel and Gretel” Technique: This involves leaving subtle “breadcrumbs” in conversation that entice the other person to ask questions about you. By sharing interesting tidbits without oversharing, you create curiosity and engagement.

9. Avoiding the “I” Disease: Conversations should be a two-way street. Lowndes warns against talking too much about yourself and instead encourages focusing on the other person. Ask questions and show interest in their stories, which fosters better relationships.

10. Reading Body Language: Understanding non-verbal cues is crucial in communication. Lowndes teaches how to read and respond to body language, such as recognizing when someone is uncomfortable or disengaged, and adjusting your approach to keep the interaction positive.

These lessons provide practical strategies for enhancing communication and building stronger relationships, whether in personal, social, or professional settings. By applying these techniques, you can become more effective in connecting with others and achieving success in your interactions.