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It’s not usually the big fights that end relationships with Dismissive Avoidants—it’s something far more subtle: the slow fade into the “roommate trap.” In this video, Thais Gibson explains why love with a Dismissive Avoidant often erodes into mere coexistence, how neuroscience confirms disengagement is more damaging than conflict, and the exact steps you can take to prevent it.

You’ll learn about the “four pillars of connection,” why Dismissive Avoidants over-rely on intellectual connection, and how unspoken needs and unprocessed conflicts slowly build walls that kill intimacy. Thais also shares a practical 3-step strategy to stop the cycle and reintroduce emotional closeness into the relationship.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants rely heavily on intellectual connection, neglecting emotional and romantic pillars
✅ How comfort, routine, and security become their version of “commitment”
✅ Why lack of communication about needs leads to walls and eventual disengagement
✅ What the Gottman Institute reveals about emotional disengagement as the #1 predictor of divorce
✅ How oxytocin and shared vulnerability moments rebuild bonding
✅ A practical framework: set deadlines, communicate needs, inject micro-vulnerability, and define boundaries

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
00:36 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Prefer to Connect Intellectually
00:59 – The Pillars of a Relationship
02:40 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Feel Safe in Disconnection
04:32 – Heal From a Breakup Course Promo
05:21 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Struggle With Communication
07:54 – The Neuroscience of Conflict & Vulnerability
09:28 – Step 1: Set a Deadline
10:34 – Step 2: Clarify Your Needs in a Relationship
12:03 – Step 3: Be Upfront About Boundaries
13:06 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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The “roommate trap” silently ruins relationships with avoidants. Learn the hidden reasons it happens—and the steps to reignite intimacy and connection. Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share this video. 💗