Скачать или смотреть 立宇：辭去13年的法官工作，我赦免了自己 Li-Yu: Quitting my 13-year job as a judge, I pardoned myself

立宇，心理諮詢師。“家裏的多餘人”——這個從童年時期貼上的自我標籤，曾是立宇丈量世界的標尺。幼年的立宇被父母寄養在別處，她理解的偏愛就是姑奶奶每頓餐多留給自己的一個雞蛋。產後抑鬱時，立宇曾想帶着孩子從樓上一躍而下，周圍人對孩子的過度關注，讓她再次遇見了那個始終覺得“不被愛”的自己。在痛苦的輾轉中，立宇開始向內探索，才發現不被愛的感受只是一種片面的錯覺。於是在父親生病後，立宇毅然辭去了一級法官的工作照顧父親，在回溯中她赦免了過去的創傷，以及那個不被愛的自己。第828位受訪者，立宇，心理諮詢師 Liyu, a psychological counselor. “The redundant person in the family” - this self-labeling from childhood was once the yardstick by which Liyu measured the world. As a young child, Riyu was fostered by her parents elsewhere, and the favoritism she understood was the extra egg that her aunt and grandmother left for her at every meal. In her post-partum depression, Li-Yu once wanted to take her baby and jump down from the stairs. The excessive attention paid to her child by the people around her brought her back to the self that she had always felt “unloved”. In the midst of the pain, Riyu began to explore inwardly, only to realize that the feeling of being unloved was only a one-sided illusion. When her father falls ill, Riyu resigns from her job as a first-class judge to take care of him, and in doing so, she pardons the trauma of the past and her unloved self.
The 828th interviewee, Riyu, counselor