217: Are We Raising Our Daughter To Be A Career Woman Or A Housewife?

Today on the podcast we are answering a listener question: Are you raising your daughter to become a career woman or a homemaker & wife? We thought that it was an interesting question because we have seen this exact same question asked to multiple different people that we follow online and it’s been interesting to hear their responses.

One gal said specifically that she was not raising her daughter to be either and she could be whatever she wants to be. We thought if you don’t have the target in mind, then you’re going to miss it every time. We do think we should have objective goals for our daughters.
Today we will be talking about how to navigate that in the 21st century when there are so many career opportunities and obviously being a wife and mother is a big blessing.

The problem is, is that something or somebody or multiples things/bodies are going to be shaping our daughter’s worldview and shaping them into something. If we’re not proactive in doing that as parents, then again, somebody is. It is of the utmost importance that we take the responsibility seriously as parents in being the prominent voice. We don’t want to be the only voice. We want to find other resources and people that can speak into our children’s lives too.

When it comes to our daughters and equipping them, we want them to grow in capabilities and tactics to be able to add value in any situation that they might find themself in. We also need to speak highly of being a wife and mother to our daughters, just like God does, because the voice against them is so loud. When you look at the narrative in the news, media, songs, all sorts of art and entertainment, education, etc, it has this strong narrative that does not promote being a Godly wife and mother. God thinks and esteems so highly of them. As parents, we need to be extremely vocal in advocating and speaking well of those things and equipping our daughters to thrive in any situation!

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Timestamps:

0:00-1:45 Career Woman Vs. At Home Wife
1:50-9:30 The Root Of The Question
9:31-17:00 The Goal Of Raising Children
17:01-18:20 Music Academy Discount
18:21-25:20 Is it Either/Or?
25:21-27:30 Modeling Success In The Home
27:31-30:30 Career Matching the Family Vision
30:31-37:35 Using Creativity
37:36-43:00 A Real Proverbs 31 Woman
43:01-48:20 Seasonality In Your Role
48:21-52:30 Equip Your Daughter With a Biblical Worldview
52:31-57:00 A Woman That Helps The Mission
57:01-1:00:01 The Homestead Dream
1:00:02-1:10:00 The Long Term Vision
1:10:01-1:15:51 Final Thoughts