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Many people think avoidants pull away because they don’t care enough, but the reality is, saying “no” can actually make your relationship with an avoidant healthier and stronger. In this video, Thais Gibson explains why setting boundaries and honoring your truth fosters deeper respect, reduces pressure, and creates the space for secure love to flourish.

You’ll discover why avoidants are drawn to partners who have their own sense of self, how people-pleasing backfires into blowups, and why approval-seeking erodes attraction. Most importantly, you’ll learn that saying “no” is not rejection, it’s self-respect, and it actually brings more authenticity and closeness into your connection.

You’ll learn:
✅ Why dismissive avoidants feel pressured when they’re the center of your universe
✅ How people-pleasing backfires and leads to frustration and emotional “blowups”
✅ The difference between a proactive “no” (healthy boundary) and a reactive “no” (resentment-driven)
✅ Why approval-seeking erodes attraction and makes avoidants feel disconnected
✅ How to balance saying “no” with also asking clearly for your “yes” needs
✅ Why honoring your needs is actually the fastest path to secure attachment

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
01:15 – 1 — Pressure in Relationships
04:33 – 2 — The Power of Saying “No”
06:19 – Proactive vs Reactive “No’s”
07:06 – 3 — Approval-Seeking
08:40 – Spin to Win Promo
09:23 – 4 — Asking for Your Needs
10:52 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

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