Enneagram Types 8 and 9 in a Relationship Explained

Here's a glimpse into what a relationship looks like between a Type 8 Challenger and a Type 9 Peacemaker.

We'll talk about what these types have in common, what specifically attracts each type to each other, what conflict looks like between them, and then conclude with some potentially helpful advice based on the enneagram theories discussed throughout the episode. DISCLAIMER: This is a general overview that cannot cover the complexity of each subtype & variation (e.g. a self-pres 8w9 with a social 9w1 could be very different than some of these general descriptions), nor can I cover how the varying degrees of each specific couple's mental/emotional health would impact so many of these patterns. So with that disclaimer out of the way, please feel free to share how these patterns do or don't play out in your personal life, all while keeping any combative disagreements to a minimum :) Thank you, and enjoy!

0:00 Shared Traits
2:41 Eight's Attraction to Nine
5:00 Nine's Attraction to Eight
8:09 Conflict
11:00 Advice
13:37 Relationship Rating

💪 Type Eight Complete Guide
▶    • Enneagram Type 8s Explained - A Compl...  

💙 Type Eight Relationships Overview
▶    • Relationships with Enneagram 8s  

☮️ Type Nine Complete Guide
▶    • Enneagram Type 9s Explained - A Compl...  

🩵 Type Nine Relationships Overview
▶    • Relationships with Enneagram 9s  

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-Written by Colton Simmons, but with all due credit to the Don Riso & Russ Hudson of the Enneagram Institute for their many books that informed the majority of the content contained in this video, as well as Richard Rohr, Helen Palmer, Claudio Naranjo, Oscar Ichazo, and the many major enneagram pioneers!